How Many Rabbits Do You Own?
I was recently approached by someone in a local meetup. She sent a short note wanting to know what kind of online marketing I did. I replied with links to my companies and projects. She wrote back noting my ambition, drive, and determination to succeed. Yes – I have all of that.
But then she tried to sell me on a multi-level marketing scheme.
Ok – I shouldn’t call it a scheme. It’s a real business idea – but probably not a lucrative one. I hate MLM’s. Why should I work my butt off to make someone else money? And an MLM only works when I get people underneath me. It’s a horrible business model.
So, I thought about how to respond. On one hand, I wanted to let her know I was upset she was pitching me a garbage business idea. On the other, I wanted to let her know why I didn’t want to pursue a partnership.
I searched Google for a witty answer. And I found an old Native American saying:
“If you chase two rabbits, you will lose them both.”
I love this quote. It explains what I go through every day. Except for the fact I have about six rabbits. And the cage is open.
I wrote back to her and explained this quote. My two rabbits were getting away and I couldn’t possibly adopt another one – plus, pellets are expensive. This leads me to an entire post about focus – and my lack thereof.
I start a lot of side projects. Some would say too many. I currently work full-time, run a growing mustard company and manage sales & marketing for a software start-up I co-founded. Not to mention a food start-up resource, writing for this blog twice a week, writing for my recipe blog once a month, and trying to have a life.
Something had to give. My rabbits were out-of-control.
I shut down my recipe blog last week. BlueberryChuckle.com is no more. I don’t miss it one bit. I no longer have to think about making something presentable, taking a picture of it, writing a story about why I made it, etc.
I can simply eat.
And that’s something I love to do – without the fancy pictures and blog posts. I left behind a whopping 10 subscribers on that blog and about 18 recipes. I was one of millions of recipe blogs. I started the project because I loved to cook and hoped it would help me get back into photography. The result? I still love to cook and take pictures, but it felt forced. Like something I had to do.
Plus, it was taking away from everything else.
I worked on my other projects less. Outside of work, I devoted close to 80% of my time between two businesses. So – 40/40. Plus sleeping, eating, exercising, reading, writing, etc. I felt myself losing focus everyday. When I sat down to get work done, I bounced back and forth between all of my projects. But there was no more recipe blog.
I can already feel the difference after sacrificing just one rabbit.
It’s been amazing – like weight lifted off my shoulders. It would be even better if I only had one rabbit. One thing to focus on. But that takes time. I want to find the one rabbit that’s worth chasing after. The juiciest, most promising rabbit to throw all of my resources at. I haven’t found it quite yet and that’s why I’m still brainstorming ideas, building new products, and finding ways to solve problems. One of these rabbits is going to take-off. But at the expense of his furry friends.
So I ask you this:
How many rabbits do you own?
Have you been splitting your focus with a new rabbit – or – are you focused on the prize?
Michael Adams
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I can relate to the feeling of setting something aside. Great feeling. But I think people will always own more than one rabbit. Work, home, marriage, children, other relationships, hobbies & extracurricular activities; and then all of the intricacies of each of those. Sometimes it’s just too much, but which one do you set aside?
Yvonne,
You make a good point about always having multiple rabbits. You’re right. You’re never going to have just one. Letting something go, however, could be anything. For me, it was just side projects, but that’s because I don’t have to interact with many of life’s other curve balls yet :p
Thanks for reading!
Michael